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what should i do or say?

Published on October 20, 2012 by pinkelephant

my boyfriend said to me last night if he wanted someone to nag at him he would just go to his mums . I thought this was threating me to leave me so i told him to just leave he texted me saying he loves me and we need time appart he stopped me seeing my friends and thinks he knows everything so why am i missing him i do love him but cant have this in years to its breaking my heart xxxx



From what you write, it sounds like you and your boyfriend have fallen into some dangerous habits-- on both sides. Take the time to be honest with yourself about what you do (maybe he's got a point and you do nag?) and be clear about what you want for yourself and in a relationship.

Are you willing to do what it takes to turn things around with him? Keep in mind, this might also mean you setting some boundaries and seeing your friends if you want to.

If you think you and your relationship can change and address some of these dangerous habits, then talk with your boyfriend. Come up with some agreements that are doable, that you both truly agree too and that will start to move you two closer together.

Best Wishes, Susie and Otto