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what should i do to make things better?
I'm 8weeks pregnant and my boyfriend have medical problems and when he complain about hurtin I still massage him most times even when I'm hurtin, but when I'm hurtin yes he'll help at times and at other times he'll jus say "you always hurtin, you don't never have time for me nomore" and that really makes me feel bad at times, he says I haven't really been payin him no attention and barely touchin him and havin sexual intercourses with him now that I'm pregnant and asked me do we think we made a mistake about everything and said he need time to himself. But I also feel that he's bein selfish also because I'm the one pregnant so what about me? What about me gettin full attention? What about me gettin a massage or a shoulder to lean on everytime I'm in pain? He says he loves me at first he wanted a abortion because we was goin to break up because I'm 19 and will be makin 20 in november and he's 27 and he use to worry bout wat sum of his friends and wat his ex and babymama was tellin him about me bein a little girl, I'm a grown woman I handle my business so in my eyes they're the little kids he also wanted a abortion because we both do music and he feel the baby's goin to mess up our career and he also feel that ima be givin ALL my attention to the baby instead of him. This my first pregnancy so yes I hardly be in the mood and everytime I say I'm hurtin or not in the mood he'll jus watch porn and sometimes he'll do it while we in bed and turn the volume down or when he think I'm sleep I jus feel that's disrespectful my bestfriend told me that he's jus all about himself but I don't want to believe that because I don't want to be a struggling single mother, my mother jus recently passed so I barely have any help and I just don't know wat to do anymore