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What should i do about guy who says he loves me but doesn't act like it?
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly eight months and i know it's relatively early days but i'm pretty much in love with him. For the first months everything was perfect, he was sweet and kind. He used to listen to me when i was upset and he'd send me random endless texts about how much a ment to him.
Now though things have changed. I feel like he couldn't care less, that's how he acts. I'm lucky if i get to see him once a week, he makes up pathetic excuses about why he can't come out and he barely talks to me, all he seems to want to do is sexual stuff. We haven't had sex yet as we're both still virgins but we were talking and i decided he was the guy i wanted to loose my virgintity to.
Not very long ago he was supposed to come to me house and see me but he never showed up, i waited in for him all day but he never showed and he didn't text me all weekend. It made me feel so shit, We argue so much now but i can't talk to anyone about it because the people who used to listen are fed up of hearing me cry and just think i'm stupid to stay with him. It makes me feel so pathetic and i hate the person i've become but i really am in love with him and 75% of the time he makes me feel like the most special person in the world. I've tried telling him how i feel but he just makes it all about him and makes out that i'm being selfish and unfair on him. I just don't know what to do and i need some advice.
Thank you for listening, it means a lot.