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What should i do???

Published on May 13, 2014 by jamie123450

Hello I ve been goin out with my boyfriend for the last 3 years. We are living together and ve a 10 month old child. The problem is that hes treating me like a slave...he expects me to do all the cleaning,cooking,washing, do all the child minding and work 4 days a week. He gives out to about everyting and anyting...like if there is no drink or toilet roll in the house;/ Everyting according to him is my fault. He works 12 hrs a day so i understand he is tired but it doesnt mean he can treat me like that. He does noting around the house, even refuses to bring the wheele bin out because according to him i am doing noting so i should do it. He spends very little time wit the child, says i should do it because i know what to do when it comes to minding the baby. He says i am useless and i do nothing even tho i am the one doing everytin . What do you think i should do? should i leave him? I tried talkin to him plenty of times and its grand one day and its back to square one the next. Please help!!:(

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I think if he is like that after only 3 years it will get worse so you need help now not later I would suggest counseling because even after working 12 to 14 hours a day my wife and I shared the work and caring for the children

there is no way hes goin to do it. He thinks there is no problem and that its all my fault becuase all i doi s give out. How could i not give out when hes treating me like his personal slave??

Tell him that you will be happy to do all the work at home if you don't have to work outside the home 4 days a week. Both together is too much for one person to handle. I can see if he is the primary breadwinner he would expect you to do more than him around the house, but 100% of the workload PLUS an almost full-time job outside the house is just plain unreasonable. Be vocal, have a plan, make a chore list of what needs to be done and what you specifically would like help with. Does his mother do 100% of the work in his parents' home? My ex fiancé's mom did and guess what? Her son expected the same from me, plus a 45 hour a week job on top of that. Note the "Ex" fiancé part. Good luck XXOXOXOO

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