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What if your soon to be mother in law is so intense she makes you want to run away and never look back?
I love my soon to be mother in law, but i feel like i am not good enough. Me and my Fiance keep putting off getting married for a while now.... and the more we put it off the tougher it is to follow thru. We love each other so much! We have a beautiful daughter and we are happy (typical relationship problems though). However it seems like the one thing that really really comes between us, is his mom. This woman has helped us out so much financially that every negative thing is covered up by, "just forget about it, c'mon look how much she has helped us out.." However, when it comes to be undermined as a mother constantly and decisions i make as a mother always being questioned.. it hard to use an excuse for that.. Also it seems like every monumental moment me and my fiance have experienced such as getting engaged, buying a house, having a baby, being in debt... his mother is always there, and i mean right there! Not like watching from a distance (like my parents do), not even front row seats right there... i mean if there was such a thing as joint co starring in a movie.. it would be her and me. I love my fiance he is everything to me.. and i think sometimes he doesnt believe me, because we sit on such opposite sides on this subject. I dont want to take him away from the close bond he has with his mom, but i do want us to just be us. And if its always gonna be a three's company.. then i at least wanna know how to except everything for what it is, and deal with my end of the problems on my own.. and to have a closer relationship with his mother and him... because they are my family.. way better then the one i was born into.!! So i would take any and all advice on this subject, so i can get past all of my negative feelings.