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What to expect from a younger man?

Published on July 13, 2009 by badgurl

I've recently met a younger man, I am married but not happily. Again married but definately not "as one". Anyway.. I really like this guy, he is 10 yrs younger and just great. It has only been a month, but I really enjoy his company! I can feel so free with him, we can laugh and talk about things. I don't want to be pushy but I really want to know what it is he is looking for if anything. I tried him by not texting or calling for 2 days, he missed me me but did not make the first move, I did. He is a independant person and can just have his alone time. He always answers my calls and texts. I really like him. Should I start questioning him as to what he wants or just see what happens in 2 more months?

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Just wait and see what happens. If you pressure a younger man and he's not into it, you've lost him. You've been making all the first moves. Let him do it for a change.

You should wait. The grass really looks greener because you're not happy in your marriage right now. Even if this guy wants something, you're still married. That situation should be resolved before trying to pursue something else. Plus, everyone has their negative side to them. You just haven't found out those things about him that bother you. Like I say: if the grass looks greener on the other side, it may be artificial turf! Be careful!

I am actually thinking of him right now, I will be strong and go three days this week :-) Yes my marriage situation stinks! I anticipate leaving in about a month. It is a very long story. Not for this guy or anyone else just to get myself together. I have been having chest pains for the last 3 weeks and I am thinking that I am just stressing to much. I will take it easy and just live life. another problem for me is that I luv attention. I enjoy talking to others and can get very clingy.

Since you are married, he is probably not looking for anything, especially not anything serious. I agree with everyone else, wait until you are out of your marriage and then see what happens.

Since you are planning to leave your husband anyway, you may be anxious about ending up alone. Don't grab the first guy you see, there will be someone once you are on your own two feet.

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