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What does it when a guys says do what you want?
Hi, long story short, I've been in love with my best friends for a couple of years, he's fully aware of this (known each other for 12yrs) We've spend a lot of time together have a good time. As he was recently seperated at the time he told he wasnt emotionally ready for a relationship when i told him i had feelings for him.
fast forward to now, we've had a very good friendship & the last five months have spent almost every wk together. He had to move to his mums for a while & at his mums he would ask me to stay the night so we could hang out. (Didnt have sex or anything like) We talked about us & he said we should remain friends, but see where it things go (romantically) I didnt want to push too much, but would flirt & he flirted back, we get along so well. 5wks ago I helped him moved to his own place & everything I thought was proggessing well, he ask to make myself a set of keys to his place & said to me to do what you want, the 1st couple of wks I help him set up unpacking etc...... I was spending most week ends at his place, hanging out with him & his friends etc. about 3wks ago he went distant & cold on me, wasnt sure but hoped I hadnt doe something to upset him......About a week ago he told things were moving to fast, he needed space, he said he thought I'd make a copy of keys spare not to keep them myself & he didnt like how I had taken over his place leaving some of my things around (clothes, jewellery etc, not a lot just a few things). .... I must admit i didnt see it coming i thought things were good & was very surprise as I thought when you say to someone do what ever you want to do, That you cant expect the other person not to assume they'll be cool with you bringing a few things. I thought since we are close & talked about everything that he wouldnt hassitate to tell if i was doing something wrong or something he wasnt comfortable with. Maybe I should of asked him before I brought stuff over, but what did he mean do what you want if it doesnt mean do what you want?