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What do you do when you love two different people

Published on April 3, 2010 by andrea471

I really love this one guy so much he's the love of my life, my heart skips a beat when we talk or when I see him, he also loves me and wants to be with me but we were unable to be together at that time and now I'm with another guy that I love very much not the same as the 1st and I'm always still thinking of the 1st guy trying to get over him but it's very hard cause I love him so much. Recently the 1st guy came back around sending messages and I want to be with him so bad but I love this other guy as well, he is really good to me and my kids, he makes me happy and we are really good together, his feelings are the same towards me that I feel for the other guy I love him so much and I am so inlove with the other guy also, I don't want to hurt the guy I'm with. What do I do?


Honestly, you really just have to suck it up and pick one. You don't get to have both so figure out which one is the one you really want to be with. Who do you imagine having a future with? It's honestly your decision to make. It's not okay to cheat or keep one on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with the other, not that I'm saying you would do that but do keep it in mind. If you do feel tempted to cheat because both men are in your life, you will have to cut one of them off completely once you choose who you want to be with. In fact, it's probably a good idea to cut the one that you don't choose out since it will be harder to get over your feelings if the person is still in your life. Either way, make a decision soon. The longer you wait, the worse it will be.

I know it sounds cruel, but I don't honestly believe you can be in love with both men. Are you in love or do you just enjoy being loved? Either way, Adrian is right. You can't have both. You cannot lead one on while staying with another. You need to make a decision and stick with it.