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What do I mean, where is this going to go, and should I leave or stay?
My ex and I have been talking and dating on and off for over 3 years. I believe we both love each other and we were one anothers first everything. We have not date anyone since each other. He was talked to a few females and I have talked to a few guys but no dating or hanging out. He says he wants to be alone. I am wondering if he is pushing me away. Is he pushing me away? I do not understand why he would be because when we are together it seems just like it used to be. Maybe it is because we are exs. We aren't in a relationship and we still have sex and when I ask him what do I call this. He tell me we are friends.... :( I don't feel that we are and I want to stay close because its not good to be alone forever. He could also change his mind when he gets into the real world and see that I was there for him. As of right now, we are exs but friends still being intimate with no commitment not talking to others. We text sometimes... he always takes forever to reply and when I ask will things get back to the way they were to see where we will go.. He doesn't ever answer. He is always working. I keep asking and I may be getting aggravating. I hardly see him. He is there when I am upset and I go to him but it seems like things are still sour. Also, he says that I should go try and talk to someone else. He said that he would still be my friend if I did. But I honestly don't believe I can. I just get pissed with any guy that is not him. And he moved on because of my mouth. Not date move on but stop caring sooo much. I told too much in the past but now I have fixed that and I am a little impatient. That is why I wanted things to get back to how they were to see where things would go. He treats me like his girl still tells me he loves me and he is always there. I dont think he means what he says about being alone unless he is having a hard time letting go. I need some advice. Help!