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What do I do if my boyfriend has stopped trying?
In the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend would work very hard to make me happy. We would go on unique dates every time we would go out. He would always pay for me and say that it was his "job" when I tried to help him with the bill. He would always ask me what I wanted to do. A lot of time has gone by, and he has slowly stopped doing all of these things. He worked so hard to get me, and he does not understand that he has to work equally hard to keep me. We never go out to dinner anymore. I have been paying for everything. When we are together, we usually just stay home or go to the same place. In his defense, I am extremely easy going and low maintenance, so I've just recently begun to notice his lack of effort. He always comments on my easy-going nature. I don't want him to have to spend a bunch of money on me, but I would like him to keep our relationship spontaneous and adventurous. I don't know how to tell him without sounding like I am extremely bored in our relationship or without it seeming like I am asking for him to clean out his wallet for me.