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We're so into each other but there seems to be no future for our relationship.
Hello. Well here's the situation. I met this guy online almost a year ago and we fell into each other in a short period of time. And now we've been in a relationship for 10 months. I know this sounds crazy but I love him and feel so connected to him, and he feel the same way about me. We live a world apart but we keep in touch whether through phone calls or emails. One day he asked me to come to the states where I could be together with him and pursue a better career there. Well I thought it was a good idea since I have never met him in persons. But when I talked to my parents about this, they gave me their disagreement. They said that it was nonsense for me to move to the states. I know they must be worried about me meeting someone that I just met online. But then again, my parents started pushing me to get a job here. Well, since there seems to be no chance to get their approval, so lately I've been thinking about getting a job here in my country which means, I'm not coming to the states. What hurts me most, is, that he's been thinking to get everything ready for my arrival. He's going to get a new house for us and been thinking about marriage. I tried to talk to him about this, that the only way it will work out is him moving here. But he said he could not do that. So, I'm so confused now, I don't know where this relationship leads us to. What should I do?? And I'm too afraid to tell him that I'm thinking about getting a job here. Please, let me know what to do. Thanks.