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"Wants to be friends"
So me and this guy have been friends for a while. He has had a hard time through his whole life. His mom is an alcoholic and he hates all of his family.He is in the National guard also. In the past month, me and him had gotten really close. He was like my ideal guy. He had everything i could ever ask for. He also liked me a lot.We ended up acting like a couple and I decided to go visit him. The day I went to visit him he lost his job and his food stamps. It was a tough time for him but I was there to support him and pull through it. That weekend he was supposed to go to a Drill thing for the military. He didn't have a ride so he didn't go. He then got charged with AWOL. He came to me CRYING and I helped himthrough all that. He told me he loved me at the time because I was the only close thing he had. We then started dating and everything seemed great! He treated me like a princess and he was just truly amazing. The next weekend I was supposed to go down and see him again but I was unable to make it. He was really upset just because he couldn't see me. After that, he acted different whenever we talked to me. He seemed unhappy and down. Then he texted me and that the hour long distance was killing him and he couldn't do it. I was really upset. He said that he wanted to be best friends until he could actually be closer and see me every day instead of on the weekends. Ever since then he hasn't talked to me and that was over a week ago. I feel like everything I did wasn't good enough. I helped him through everything and I was the only one that was there for him through all his hard times. I don't get it. What is going through his head? Was he just tired of the week long relationship? someone else? Or is he just protecting his own heart? Please help!