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Wanting my guy!

Published on October 7, 2012 by still wondering

When a guy seems interested in me, i get this sick feeling in my stomach. He would aprouch me and even if i'm attrated to him i would totally cut him off. I would be sick. I have been hurt by many men in my life both family and relationships. I guess i'm just afraid of knocking down my walls just to built it up again. How can i stop being so afraid and hopefully find my guy? 


Take the time to heal your past. Your experiences with men probably aren't going to improve until you do. When you're having such an intense physical reaction, this is your signal to spend some energy healing those old wounds so that you can let go of the past.

Working with a counselor or coach can help you do this. Then, when the past is in the past, you'll be more open to guys and you'll trust yourself to know when it's wise to let down your walls and create the relationship you want.

Best Wishes, Susie and Otto