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Unusual Sex habits
I am a sexual being. When I am in a relationship, I am very attentive and affectionate(and completely into everything about sex, touching, etc). Ok, so I have met the man I know I am going to marry. He is simply, amazing. Issue: He is AWFUL in bed. He is the sexiest man I have ever met, and I am so in love with him BUT, I don't look forward to sex. First, when we are kissing and or touching, he does get mostly erect. But the minute "Sex" comes in, he loses it. In order to have sex, he has to focus on my girl stuff and touching himself to get hard. So the only way we have sex is missionary. He is all about learning my body and likes, and seems to really get excited orally pleasing me, but other then actual penis touching, he doesn't seem to like much that I do to him. Not really even neck biting or anything like that. This really concerns me, and it feels like he is addicted to masturbation, has been for so long, that is the only way he can get erect. And how he watches/touches/talks to me when doing it, feels like I'm the PORNO, and I have never experienced this type of behavior before. I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me, but the way he is with me tends to rule that out. Im at a loss, but need advice on how to approach this concern. I love him so much, and would rather not have sex then to lose what we do have.