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Try or Keep Trying ?
My ex & I have been together for 2+ yrs & we recently broke up a month & a half ago. Two weeks before the break up that I found out I was pregnant , & we knew it wasn't great timing because of the bumps in our relationship but it happened & we accepted it . In a heated argument , he left the house & moved out , but this time he didn't cone back home within the week. Something about this time is different. I've apologized & asked if he can come home , I also begged if we can work it out for the babies sake & he has been so cold & not responding & ignoring me , which after many arguments he's never done . Then I found out he's been talking to some online that lives in another state, basically dreaming of building a relationship with her & from what it seem he's emotionally attached because he getsfrom ber what I don't give him , support & non judgmental conversation . I was shocked . yeah we've had problems but we never ran to outsiders to distract us, although I know he feels some type of way for the young lady. idk if its just in the moment or a rebound from me or if he found someone (even though shes in another state) too just talk too. I ask him if he loves me & is he still in love with me & he says he does, But he says he doesn't want to be with me because he's tired of the back & forth . He still communicates for the baby & makes doctors appt. At one appointment , he rubbed my belly , & actually kissed me VERY passionately . He sends mixed signals & he knows I love him & I want to be a family . However he still hasn't been home or to my home , its been tough & he knows it . I just don't know if I should completely stop talking to him & showing him I want him or keep trying in hopes my relationship will work & he will see my effort. I just don't know . I really love him , & I just want us too work , but is it healthy too continue?