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This irritates the heck out of me!

Published on July 15, 2013 by littlepearl1965

I am irritated by the comments the man I'm dating makes about other women. He was telling me about him playing with his band Thursday night at a bar. A woman who was there with her boyfriend went on stage with the band and played a tambourine. He went on and on about how attractive she was, and how she distracted all the guys on stage by shaking her a while playing the tambourine. He had his buddy take a picture of her standing next to him. What was the point in him telling me this, and showing me the picture? He makes comments when we are out or when he sees a woman on TV. "She's built like a brick st house", etc. There will always be someone younger and better looking than me out there...but I don't need to hear about it.

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This is definitely something you two need to discuss. You need to make it clear to him that his behavior and comments are hurting you, and that you are his girlfriend, not another guy friend. There is an important distinction between the two (besides the obvious), and he shouldn't treat you like a bro if that hurts you.

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