Most of people having an affair seems to end very sad and bitter. I just would like to know is there anyone who is managing well between husband ( Wife ) and your lover in harmony ?
I think that it is possible that you find someone after your marriage, but you have to keep your marriage because of commitment and responsibilities. So result is you keep your marriage but start relationship with your lover.

Is this so bad ? The point is I love both ... for sure these are different love, but both are true love.

Trust me on this,NOTHING good will ever come from something like that! If you can't be happy with just one person,don't make a commitment. It's that simple.