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suggestions on how not to be upset when my boyfriend has to see his ex each month
I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Each month, he has to meet up with his ex girlfriend to pick up money from her. Long story, but in a nutshell she used his credit card to go on a trip. Said she would pay him back. The trip was over 3 1/2 years ago and she still owes him a lot of money. She is good about paying each month. However, each month he seems to be staying a little longer. It shouldn't take 1-1 1/2 hours to pick up money. He tells me he it is a game, cause he wants to make sure he gets all his money back. Which I understand, but enough is enough. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? The rate she is paying back he will be doing this for years and years. I know he loves me, so why do I feel this way? Any advise would be great!