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suggestions on how not to be upset when my boyfriend has to see his ex each month

Published on September 21, 2013 by doodlebug

I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Each month, he has to meet up with his ex girlfriend to pick up money from her. Long story, but in a nutshell she used his credit card to go on a trip. Said she would pay him back. The trip was over 3 1/2 years ago and she still owes him a lot of money. She is good about paying each month. However, each month he seems to be staying a little longer. It shouldn't take 1-1 1/2 hours to pick up money. He tells me he it is a game, cause he wants to make sure he gets all his money back. Which I understand, but enough is enough. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? The rate she is paying back he will be doing this for years and years. I know he loves me, so why do I feel this way? Any advise would be great!