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So confused...

Published on February 22, 2013 by shazza

Hmm... ok so I've been with this guy for over a year, I have no idea what kind of relatonsip it is.... I really, really like him ok love him, it's dorky but I did go online to search signs if he feels the same way and all the signs say he does but I'm still unsure...... we meet up once or twice a week maybe three, thats if we both dont have study mind you he's 6 years older than me... he always says he doesnt want to come across clingey and wants to miss me... he tells me he's happy with what we have an he is happy with me and would never change anything about me, we have a lot in common, never had a fight,and i asked if he ever intended to be with each other this long his answer was yes because he felt we had a connection.... he's very private his family knows about me but not as in great detail they just know he's with someone.... Our conversation are so unusual we'll talk about anything an everything even children but not having them.... he always tells me cause of study if it ever gets to hard for me then we can always be best friends..... I guess what im asking is does he really feel the same..... Everyone is telling me to let him go that he should be spoiling me and seeing me everyday but i dont want to be spoilt i wouldnt mind seeing him more.... plus when he's over he never sleeps here maybe because he's about 20 odd km's away from me..... I need advice this is the first guy i've ever been with.... HELP!


To me it seems like he does care for you but might not be in the right state of mind to be in a serious, monogamous relationship and may not be worth your time. He sounds like he wants you, but also wants to keep his options open to other girls. If he really liked or loved you, he would be texting you all the time to see how you are and wanting to see you as much as possible. If i were you, I would either give him some type of ultimatum, or break things off all together. It's easier said than done, but you sound like if you're in a relationship you're completely loyal to that person, and you deserve that kind of companionship in return. I hope this helps :)