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Should you confront someone who broke your heart or forget it and try to move on?

Published on October 1, 2010 by 2fareal

I was thinking today if I made the right decision on not really confronting this guy on dragging me into this pointless heartache. I was trying to be the bigger person after he told me how much he wanted to be with me then I saw on facebook.com he was getting engaged again setting a date and a location. In my heart I wanted to post comments all over his wall saying ugly things or just to say oh really you didn't invite me shame on you..lol
My friends think i should have told him about himself in a comment or private message at least something. I didn't. He never tried to contact me again( since a week before the posting) and neither did I. I figured he was too much of a coward to tell me so he decided that was easy enough, because we were still friends on facebook at the time. And you know what that means you can see everything your friends post on your home page as soon as you log on. I didn't have to snoop because it was right in my face.

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Clearly your ex has moved on so you should do the same. I understand how much it hurts to have someone break your heart and then have to deal with them moving on with someone else. It's hard,but saying ugly things to him and trying to hurt him because he hurt you is not going to make things any better. Just forgive and move forward. Yes I know,that's easier said than done,but I promise in the long run you will be glad you did. There is a reason things didn't work out with him. I believe God has someone better lined up for you so be patient and in HIS timing,the right one WILL come along. I'll be praying for you.

Don't give him the satisfaction of confronting him,he know what he did.You be the young lady that you are and let that ZERO GO AND GET YOU A HERO! GOOD LUCK! GOD BLESS!

Just be glad that you dodged a bullet with this guy. I predict his marriage will be on the rocks in a year.

Blessings on you and yours John Wilder

marriagecoach1@yahoo.com

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