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Should I worry about his relationship history?
I've never been one to care much about exes. However, in my current relationship I've found out things that were not very pleasant to hear. In his senior year of college he had a one-month fling with a girl who had been pursuing him rather adamantly. She was his first everything (kiss, oral, sex). They were incompatible and he left her without even telling her it was over after about a month. The relationship was strictly sex and nothing else. He was using her, and vice versa. However they weren't compatible and he was only able to get it up twice. After her, there was a longer fling with an online girl. He was using her just because he liked that she was flirting with him. She was also using him for money and attention. They met in person, kissed, and she stopped talking to him a couple of months later when she found someone more local. There was no depth to it at all, and he spent over a thousand bucks in a matter of months just trying to please her.
The thing is, I can't help but wonder if he's just in it for the benefits with me. His entire dating history (all of 2-3 girls) consists of him being pursued by a girl and just letting her pursue him so he can take advantage of it. He kept all of them secret from friends and family (and tried to keep me secret for a long time but eventually told people about me). Should this be a red flag, or am I just being overly paranoid?