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should i stay or run

Published on March 5, 2010 by tra

my boyfriend lives 2hr away-I love him and really love me and he fills me emotionally and physically but I have red flags- my girls don't like him, he drinks 6 beers a night, the programs that he tapes on his dvrall relate to sexy women, he has been out of work for 6 months prior to this he was very sucessful, and he can be very intense. I know from the red flags that I should proablay run but I can seem to break away.


It's up to you if you want to pursue a relationship with him. The economy is bad so not having a job for 6 months isn't that out of the norm unless he's totally unmotivated to even try to get another job. I'm not sure I'd worry about whatever programs he's watching unless it's like porn or the playboy channel or something that's actually degrading to women. The major concern is the 6 beers a night. Do you think he's an alcoholic? Did he lose his job because of his drinking? If so, RUN. Run for the hills. You do not want to be with an alcoholic. They are emotionally and physically abusive and it's not going to lead to anything but pain. What specifically do your friends say they don't like about him? Do you feel they are honestly just looking out for your best interest?