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Should I stay by his side?
A couple years ago I found out that my husband started becoming addicted to porn. He has been open with me. We have had a major roller coaster ride since then. He knows he has hurt me so it feels to me that he does not want to invest in our relationship due to the hurt he has caused. I have chosen to stay with him and try to be supportive. We were having one of our arguments today and I found out that when we were engaged 12 years ago that he was not 100% attracted to me. At the time he was a spiritual person and prayed and felt that God said to marry me and He would make me beautiful. That came as a huge blow cause I thought that there was attraction there. Some events took place 7 or 8 years ago that has shaken my husband's faith in God and everything that he knew in life. Now I feel like I have nothing to give that would some what entice him to stay with me. Do I let him go? I have no one to talk to about this, cause my husband is a private person, which I want to respect, and no one knows about the things that he has struggled with, but me. Do you have some advice? Is there hope for him and me to still be together? Thanks for your time and concern.