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should I have not called him
I'm in a relationship with a co-worker "friends with benefits" for over a year. We stopped our relationship for about 3 months because I had sent a couple of text messages to him asking for advise with a job I was doing. He apologized to me and we re started seeing each other again. On Saturday, I called him at his other job asking if he was interested in helping me with a catering job. I know he works alone. So I figured it was ok to call since no one was around him. Since my phone call he seems very distant to me only talks when he has to. I asked him today if everything was ok with him and he said yes. Even though I do not believe this to be the case. So I asked again, and said if he wanted to talk, I was there. He got upset and stopped talking to me. Was I wrong in calling? He and I always get along great. I know he is very scared of getting "caught" with our affair. We are very careful when we do anything so that no one talks. What do I do? Did I blow it? He is a very private person and does not open up too much. So I tend to read between the lines sometimes too much. We are from different cultures I am white and he is hispanic. I'm not sure if I crossed the line by calling. Any advise? I enjoy my relationship with him and do not want to do anything to jepordize it. Thanks!