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Should I dump my boyfriend who I feel doesn't care about me as much as I care about him?
I've been dating this guy for over four months now. We talked, hung out, had occasional sex for seven months before we made it official. I would have made it official the moment I met him but he didn't want a girlfriend and I played along like I really didn't want a boyfriend. While we were "talking" he talked to other girls, even tried to date one but she didn't like him like that so what did this guy do? Go back to me because I was always there, always at his beckon call. It's pathetic really. If I moved a step toward him he moved two steps back. It was that type of deal. But there were a few times he just pissed me off because he put me on the back burner because some cute girl came to work. But the moment I step back he lurches foward and would act like he doesn't want me to leave and he acts like he really likes me. That shit went on for the good first 5 months I knew this guy. Things eventually got better. It got to the point where we were hanging out everyday, sleeping with each other every night, practically being boyfriend and girlfriend. So he asked me to be his girlfriend and of course I sais yes. And things are ok for the most part. I just feel like I'm just in his life because he's afraid of being alone, not because he adores me or loves me. For fuck sake, this guy has never even really paid me a compliment, not ONE! And I'm not a needy person who craves attention. I don' t need someone to tell me I'm beautiful. I would however like the satisfaction to know that my boyfriend thinks I'm pretty. That sounds so stupid but it bothers me. Also, he won't change on his facebook that hes in a relationship either..it still says he is single! I've brought it up before too. I act like it doesn't bother me because I changed my too but it bothers me alot because he talks to girls on there. I feel like hes ashamed that he has a girlfriend or something. And I feel like I do everything for him and he doesn't do that much at all. And I don't feel like he really cares when I do things for him either. But sometimes he does, sometimes he has his good moments but honestly the bad out weigh the good... I'd like to say we're good friends. Omg I need help. There is always something that eats at me with him. I'm always worried about something with this guy yet for some reason, I absolutely love this guy and I don't know why. Maybe its not love though. Seems like I was under this type of pressure with my last boyfriend, I was constantly jealous. Which is the worst feeling in the world. I mean, is it me? Am I overanalyzing the situation too much? I need help.