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Should I ask for more or walk away?

Published on May 8, 2010 by chrys_love99

So I have been involved with this guy for 2.5years. We've been FWB the whole time. We dating shortly but it didnt work out because he got back with his ex. Now we're together again, and he says he likes being with me and that he's comfortable with me so I dont know why it isn't going any further then FWB. He is my best friend, and sadly I've been in love with him for as long as I've known him really. Now we're having a baby and I dont want to set a bad example, or confuse my kid, about mommy and daddy. I don't know if I should talk to him about wanting more, because last time we talked about it he didn't want it, or if I should just walk away without trying.

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I have been there and done that with my son's father. The best advice I can give is that he will only do what you allow him to do. If he knows that you will stick around without requiring a relationship, he will keep saying that this is cool with being FWB. You have to remember that you child knows when mommy is happy or not so you have to do whatever is necessary to make yourself happy even if it means that you are not with him. You deserve more. So until he can give you what you need and deserve, then he doesnt deserve to have you. I hope this helps.

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