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is she using me

Published on January 5, 2012 by bmcycles

How to tell if she is using me we have not seen each other but 2-3 times in two months i work out of town she shows no emotion when i do see her have not had sex in 2 months and it does not bother her she has never mentioned it she only makes sure she texts or calls everyday she says she loves me she tells Facebook more than me she lied to me bout Christmas with family and i missed out i pay all her bills and bought all Christmas for her and kid and i give her plenty of spending money but she swears she loves me for real but shows no feelings or emotion toward me and would be happiest with me not with her everyday it seems and is satisfied with our current situation ..give me advice and answers please


Instead of asking what she's thinking/feeling, why don't you ponder what's going on with you? Your needs aren't being met. If you like affection and regular sex, and someone who treats you the way you want to be treated, find a woman like that. You two are incompatible. Why would you settle? Is that all you deserve? You only have one lifetime to choose wisely. Be smart and choose someone who meets all of your main needs. Good luck.

Dear BM Cycles, A relationship must go both ways, and you sound like a loving person who is deserving of affection - not to mention respect and love. I don't know that I would say she is using you, but she most certainly is not treating you as you deserve. How long have the two of you been together?

Kind Regards Heidi Lee

Your a providing for her at the moment and it seems as if she's trying to play the part. But, she's not doing a good job of it. Everyone deserves to be happy and if your not happy, you know what to do. :/