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She lets men flirt with her
So I have been in a relationship for the last 8 months, The Girl is amazing. I love her more than anything. We live about 4 hours apart and only see each other on the weekends. She is amazing, but the problem is she lets other men flirt with her actively. She is in the US navy and I recognize that this cannot be avoided, But she opening lets them flirt and hit on her. Her "Best Friend" there even kissed her on the neck. Now when I get upset about this, she said that he was still her best friend and "was sure he had no feelings for her". She makes me feel extremely insecure with all the other men she actively goes out on dates and to concerts with. She loves me emmensly, I know it. I trust her, But I don't trust these people she hangs out with. Nothing makes me feel worse and more insecure than hearing about how great the movie went with the same guy every other day. Point is, I'm extremely insecure about how she is letting this happen. I feel terrible. I need to know if the fault is with me or with her.