Hello guys from yourtango.com my question is the following. I knew this beautiful girl one year ago, I'm 26 and she is 20 Y/O. But since I know her I know she likes to drink alcohol and party. I love this girl but I do not accept the way she is and I think she loves me too. I have tried to leave her and walk away but I can't do it. Everytime I do it she cryes and breaks my heart ( I'm Piscis ) and I always return with her One day I thought myself Why ? I'm still with her and the answer was Because I fell in love of her beauty not her person or feelings and when I began to know her a little bit more and I didn't like her now she promised not to drink no more but she has broken too many promises that I do not know what to do. Can you give an advice about my relationship I would apreciated so much, anything. Thank you for your time and I'll be waiting your answer.oh ! my name is Sergio and my girlfriend's name is Dayana.
You need to move on. You are absolutely right not to go for this girl's lifestyle because it is definitely wrong and will bring her nothing but ruin and heartache in the end if she continues down this path. You don't need to let her try to guilt you into staying in this so she can lead you down the wrong path along with her. God has better for you than this and in His timing you'll find it. Just wish her well and pray for her to get her life together,but get out of this relationship fast! I will be praying for you both. God Bless! :)
I was in the same situation when i was 20 i was dating a great guy who was 30 but didnt approve of my lifestyle how i went clubbing and drank until after to find out it was a phase for me few month after he got distant and pushed himself away i got tired of drinking and partying and i wanted something stable i couldnt forgive him for just giving up and almost 2 years later he still is trying to get back with me and my perception of him changed after how he broke my heart...i used that as an example because giving up is sometimes the easiest if u feel she can be the down and u guys can get through it stick around but do take measures have a serious talk and explain how it turns off and reflects on ur relationship if she makes efforts to changed then great if not follow your heart and ur intuition u dont want to waste ur time but u dont want to give up and live with what if's for a long time plus the pain of a break up its the worst...plus pay attention maybe her friends might have a great infuence in her drinking and she might need someone to open her eyes in that....good luck and remember ur intuition never steers you wrong!!!!