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Sex after we have broken up is much much better...why?
For some time I have been with my girlfriend, and although I am extremely affectionate and loving towards her, sexually I don't feel turned on before or during sex. I have been questioning for a long time whether I am ready to be in such a relationship, we're both 29, and I know my girlfriend wants a long term commitment which will evetually lead to marriage. When she agreed to break up and give me space etc, all of a sudden I felt turned on and we had really good sex. I can't understand it, why can't I feel like that when we're together as a couple.