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Published on October 21, 2012 by naughty tess

hi im tess and ben seperated from my hubby. we live together in the same place. no intamacy, so we have seperate rooms. we get along great and work together to. i want to know if sleeping with other guys is ok to do. he said its ok with him, since were seperated. is this cheating or not?


It's cheating because legally you're still married. So either reconcile or get divorced and move on.

This is a time for you and your husband to have a very honest conversation and come up with some agreements-- especially because it sounds like you still have a lot of contact with one another. Be clear and specific about what you each want and see what you can agree to.

If you do have hope of reconciling with your husband one day, know that you sleeping with guys might make that more difficult. It probably is in your best interests to make some kind of a decision about what you want for your future-- get clear about whether you are moving toward divorcing or reconciling?

Best Wishes, Susie and Otto Collins

I wouldn't consider it "cheating". But it might get awkward for you, him and whoever is brought into the situation. If you feel it is time to move on then get the divorce . Be sure to discuss with your spouse that this is what you both truly want. And be respectful and don't bring the guy home till something changes.

If you're married (and separated IS still married), you don't sleep with anyone but your spouse.

Either reconcile with your husband and have a complete marriage, or divorce him and move on.