When I hear your question, it makes me think of other situations. Here are some questions that I would suggest you and others in similar situations think about:
If you think through these questions, you will be better equipped to judge if she is overreacting. If in going through these questions, you decide the relationship could work, you may feel that you need help to do this. If so, you should consider finding a licensed marriage and family therapist (such as myself) in your community to help you. It is possible to have peace and wholeness in your relationships but to do so you need an understanding both of why you are in the relationship as well as tools to help you manage that relationship.
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