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Said he thinks he loves me but hes getting married
This is gonna be a long question as I am so confused right now. I have known a guy for months, we originally met online n become really good friends. He was out of a long relationship with children, when we first met. He said he was unhappy being single as he wasnt used to it. The more we spoke the more we learned that we had so much in common and were close even after a couple of months. It was never more than friends, we would flirt but that was about all. Anyway, he got back together with the ex as he said he missed the children and he hated being out of a routine. I liked him by this stage but never said anything to him and wished him well, we still stayed in contact but he knew his gf wouldnt like him having female friends so he would talk to me when he could just to see how I was and I understood that. A couple wks after he got back with her he told me he was mad about me, I didnt really know how to answer him so I just said that we should concentrate on our friendship and he said he was sorry etc. Anyway, 2 wks ago he told me he was gettin married, I was delighted for him and said so....I was under the firm impression that deep down he was happy and we both went bout our worlds even tho we kept in touch and chatted as friends. He told me he cared for me deeply, had never known anyone like me, I was the best person he ever met and would never let me go! I thought it was sweet but thought it was as friends, however, he found out I was goin on a blind date as a friend was seeing someone and she wanted me to meet his friend so I went along, we didnt get on at all but when this guy text to ask how I was gettin on with the date he seemed pleased it went bad and then told me he thought he loved me. I was so taken a back my reaction wasnt the nicest but we still had a chat and stuff was said, I havent heard from him since this and dont know what to do. I wouldnt ask him to leave his family (even tho he suggested he would give up most things, except his 3 kids, understandably, 4 me) and I want to remain friends but its so hard right now and I am really confused..... Please help....Why did he say this to me? People will think he is using me but we have never been intimate other than a friendly hug and I made it quite clear from the start I was not the other woman.