Hi brookybear96,

Unfortunately for you, most people will not tolerate being cheated on. No matter how hard you try. I would suggest that you really evaluate the reason behind kissing your ex-boyfriend in the first place. Was there drinking involved? Are there feelings still in place between the two of you? I know it must hurt because you were honest and got shafted, but it happens. Sometimes we make bad decisions and we have to learn from them.

Time heals all wounds, though.

With Love & Everything in Between,

Shamia Casiano

Relationship Coach and Love Guru

I'm not sure this is something he can get over. Kissing another man is a deal breaker in most cases. All you can do is give him time to work this out in his own way. Just learn from you mistake and pray that he forgives you.