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Relationship Probelms

Published on October 23, 2012 by kourtneyx3

Me and my ex been on and off for 6 months. An we will be good for two weeks he'll leave and then come back. I think this time its it. Its hard but i wanna prove to him that its not gonna bother me this time, what do i do?

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First of all, shift your intention. Instead of trying to "prove" to your ex that you're not bothered, re-focus on yourself. Make a decision about what is truly in your best interests. Is it in your best interests to have this one an off situation with him where he leaves and comes back?

If it's not, then make the conscious choice to stick with being broken up. Set boundaries if he tries to come back and let him know that this is truly a breakup. Then, keep reminding yourself of what is in your best interests (and what isn't).

Reach out for support from friends and family who can help you remember the things about your life that DO serve you and that do bring you comfort and even happiness.

Best Wishes, Susie and Otto Collins

Why pretend it doesn't bother you, as it obviously does. Lies are never good for a relationship (even a relationship with a douchebag). Tell him this on again - off again roller-coaster ride is crap and you're not going to put up with it anymore. Tell him the next time he leaves, he's NOT coming back.

Pretty much, he's ducking out on you whenever things get a little bit difficult. There is no future in that.

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