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the best way to react/respond to him when yesterday things were cool, no negativity. today, very mean&cold?

we've been seperated..6weeks. he chose to leave & stay elsewhere.its been difficult for me..up until past week or two,we've been communicating, no mean words or anger..have been cool w/each other..no negativity...then,,today,called him to give him some info & he went off on me..mean words, accusations..etc..etc.. continued from him thru out day with txts only

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What does my ex want??

When i became pregnant 5 five ago my ex an i had only been dating for about 5 months, we broke up when the baby was 2 months old, we got back together a few times, within the first year, after that, we often had a drunken fumble, ect, but then last year he got a girlfriend, we ended up going to court, abusing the life out of one another an we were actually convinced we hated each other.

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What is this relationship? Umm help!

So I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months, we saw each other before and then stopped seeing each other but are now seeing each other again. So when we get up I'm always the one driving, he doesn't have a car. I've been inside his apartment twice, but have never met any of his friends and we can't chill there. I am always providing green, he used to, not anymore. He has met some of my family. We go out to dinner occasionally, and we've been seen out in public together.

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What am i to him?

I have been hanging out with this guy for about 6 months. We have alot of fun together, he is always there when i need him. He throws little fits of jealousy for some odd reason. Unfortunatley we are a bit of a secret because of how we met (I use to date his best friend). We do go out in public, we talk pretty much once a day. He is slightly over protective but yet throws his best friend in my face and say's my first impression was bad. I don't understand how we can have so much fun together but his outlook on me is poor.

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Well endowed, but want to try anal sex

So my girlfriend and I have an amazing sex life, but I would love try anal sex with her sometime. The problem is that I'm a little bigger than average. Like 7-8 inches (not sure maybe more) with normal girth. So my GF likes anal play, shes had g-spots orgasims a couple of times when ive used my finger on  her and she loves rims jobs during foreplay, but shes says shes scared of trying anal sex because of my size. Shes a small girl, decent size hips and booty, but is short and weighs just over a 100 lbs.

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Different values about sex, can we make it work?

Been with my boyfriend for 3 years and plan to get married :)  We are best friends and treat eachother affectionately and with kindness.  We are on the same page about so many things, the only thing that we have different values on is sex.  We met online through a casual hook up site and started a relationship right away.  The sex was abundant, frequent and HOT!  The first time I noticed that our sex life was suffering was when we moved into our new place, only a month or two after his Mom passed away.  Because I starte

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Is it wrong to stay in relationship for money?

I've had gentleman in my life past 3 years things have been rocky I have no real feelings for him however it'll hurt both of us if we spilt I'll be out of work for next year and half due taken care of my son's needs so money limited and can't get by without his money I'll like tell him this and end it, until I can get back out there start working again I don't know what I want to do. Should I tell him and how should I tell him?

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Should I be upset that he's friends with his ex?

My boyfriend is still friends with his ex, and occasionally texts her without telling me about it. Sometimes I snoop through his phone and find the conversations, confront him about it and he doesn't understand why it upsets me. I trust him very much but I don't trust her. While most of the conversations are friendly, she tends to bring up things about their past together, and I think that she is slowly trying to get him back, wether he can tell or not.