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Trying to get my GF back without looking like a stalker

Zalrau — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:32:43 -0500

My GF broke up with me and we been apart for like 3 to 4 weeks..and she is all the way in calli i thought about flying out there to get her back but i dont want to look like a stalker i dont know were she lives but i know the location or /area she is in....and she wont answer my calls or call me back =/...and now im starting to think she is with another guy...how do i know shes with another guy anyway..and how do i not look like a stalekr trying to get her back? =(

Should I let him see me this Thanksgiving Week?

Lookingforlovely — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:29:46 -0500

I'm out at college and I get a text from him(my ex) saying "hello". And after about two days of talking he asks me if he can see me.He said he "misses" me. I tell him if I feel like it I will let him know. He is still saying bullcrap about being too busy to see me,yet he had time to talk to me on the phone for an hour on a saturday afternoon?

If you were in my situation with a guy who you dumped preemptively(he was doing things that would otherwise be deemed inappropriate or disrespectful) would you see them over your Thanksgiving holiday because they said they "missed" you?

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.

My girlfriend cheated on me twice and now she is saying shes in love, whats going on?

JSC — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:16:58 -0500

I've been with my girlfriend over three years, and in the first two she cheated on me twice. I still have problems coping with it but she swears she loves me and will never do it again. How do you know if she is being honest or just stringing me out?

I want to rev up my sex life.

would just like to meet friends

michael saldivar — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:16:25 -0500

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR MAN MAKES LOVE TO YOU, HE KISSES Me intimately and continously??

unsure2 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 14:58:34 -0500

It was ther first time I had sex with him, but he kissed me passionately during and fter sex. The he wanted to cuddle with me all night. So I just wanted to know if he is really into me or is that what men do?

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

Never Dated Before - When to start?

gamezgirl — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 12:04:39 -0500

In my final year in university and I have never dated before. In the past year someone had asked me to a formal dance but I didn't know if I wanted to start anything or not and what it really meant. It would be nice to have someone to talk to and trust but I'm not sure if you need t odae to find that. Confused. Should I be looking? How do you know when to start? Stepping out of this comfort zone seems odd.

Over the summer I went abroad to study and became friends with a guy I hanged out often with since it was a foreign country and the others in the program were more the partying type. Miss talking to him at times and one of the girls warned me to be careful near the end but I'm not sure what she was talking about but she seem to be seeing him more often now.

I want to figure out where my relationship is going.

My husband is not interested in sex anymore??

klh81 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:33:40 -0500

I've been married for almost 4 years. I have always been the more sexual person. My husband and I finally ended a custody dispute with his ex wife after 5 yrs. (We have full custody still of there child). We had to spend a lot of our savings and it was very hard financially to even buy a loaf of bread or milk. He says he's worried about the house getting back on our feet? My husband seems now to have forgotten about me. I will admit I have gained a little bit of weight but he says it doesn't bother him. I have tried to wear sexy outfits and even talk dirty to him. Whatever I do it seems not to work. All he says is that our marriage doesn't revolve around sex. I'm so sexually frustrated right now... I know he's not cheating because he could loose his career in the military and 12 yrs lost is not in store for him. Please what do I do???

I want to rev up my sex life.

How to handle this situation?

quest42c — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 08:36:11 -0500

I started a new job and met my lead, and my supervisor of the area that I am currently working in. This information is about the lead of my department. When i first saw here she looked at me with pleasing looks, which I felt, okay, normal. I overheard that she was ukranian I think. When i tried to give a look to her that she was nice, it was like, get away, its your fault this happened! I am thinking to myself this is odd and new. Yet as the days go on and the weeks if I talk to a female coworker she is right there with her presence as if to intrude or monitor conversation, and this is at anytime she sees it. But for me do not show any signs I like her keep my distance. She is really nice to all and very helpful but this is restrictive for me but I had already decided not to look for anyone in the work place as a date. My supervisor is black and I am black also and I can go up to her and talk almost like she is a good friend. One day the lead saw us and she acted like she wanted me to talk to her like I talk to my supervisor. I am a person that want to find out they why of things and mosttimes will diligently try to find out. So ihave been thinking within the past couple of days to just as questions about what nationality she is, to know for myself exactly, and kind of hit and miss with questions over a moderately shor periods of time just to find out why she is doing this. Again I percieve she is saying don't like no one else and yet stay away from her. Maybe because she is lead for one.

I want to deal with relationship problems.

How to approach my best friend about cheating on her boyfriend?

madmistress — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 08:09:47 -0500

I live in a house full of 7 college-age people, all friends I have known for anywhere between two to nine years... except for our newest household member Jay who we all just recently met.

Now, my friend Dianne (who lives in the house as well) Shares a room with her boyfriend Tim. Ever since Jay moved in, Dianne has built a little obsession with him, and what started as innocent flirting has graduated to overly-affectionate cuddling, hugging, and touch-gestures (arms around each others waists etc.). The rest of the household is alarmed, because we are friends of both Dianne and Tim (Tim actually being my ex-boyfriend, and still a very good friend of mine) and Dianne's actions toward Jay are getting reckless. She insists to everyone that she and Jay are just becoming fast-friends, and she means no harm with any of her actions. Tim, being a little bit of a pushover is obviously scared to refuse giving her what she wants, so he has so far stayed silent, though we can all tell it's driving him crazy. He witnesses most of what they're doing, and they half-heartedly they include him as if pretending 'Hey, we're all friends here', but the rest of us see past their antics.
She's posting pictures her and Jay on facebook, taking off work so she can stay home with Jay while Tim goes to work... and each day they're getting more and more 'comfortable' with each other. I'm afraid of letting this go on for too much longer, or someone is going to get hurt, people are going to take sides, and drama will consume the otherwise harmonious household.

How do I talk to her without spooking her away? She's hinted she's curious (after all, Tim is the first and only guy she's slept with) and I worry what she and Jay are already doing behind closed doors. The rest of us are anxious, and we're waiting for Tim to snap, or for her to lose control. I'm afraid that if I'm blunt, she'll feel offended and refuse to let me in and talk to me.

I want to deal with relationship problems.

help

angel34 — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 03:07:49 -0500

IM NOT IN LOVE WITH MY BF EVER SINCE I MOVED TO THE WEST COAST .HE STILL LOVES ME AND I THINK ITS VERY SWEET AND ALL BUT THATS NOT HOW I FEEL ANYMORE .HOW DO I BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM BEFORE WE BOTH GET HURT?

I want to get over my ex and start a new life.