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Is this pushing the sexual marriage boundary???

Published on October 4, 2012 by gravy11

My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years and married for about 12. We have an active sex life and have not even come close to growing tired of the same old thing. We spice it up with different things here and there. After all of this time we've learned what gets each other going which is awesome. My question is this....Lately I've read a ton about prostate massage. Almost everyone says it's the best orgasm you'll ever have and it feels amazing. I'm interested and dropping subtle hints but it's always been taboo in my book so I think she thinks I'm bluffing. How can I broach it without you know, freaking the hell out of her?


Don't hint - tell her what you'd like, and tell her you're not bluffing. You've said you two have been together for almost 20 years and aren't afraid to spice up an active sex life, so why would this suddenly freak her out, whereas other suggestions have not?

As couples grow comfortable with each other over the years it gets even harder to talk about sex openly. How to broach the subject is to begin to communicate with your wife in the bedroom, tell her when she does something that feels good. Once you begin to be more open about what you do like then you can say lets try some new things. When I do couples counseling concerning intimate sexual issues we do home assignments, so that couples can explore their sexuality more deeply.