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Am i paranoid or what? I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we have a 2 month old baby. Couple month before i found out i was pregnant we were arguing a lot, so i ended up leaving to my dad for a little while. Come to find out while i was away he was online sending other girls messages on mocospace. we worked things out and a month later i came back. He got promoted at his job so he is a supervisor now for the county transit. Several months later there's a girl calling his phone when i asked him about it he said it was the wrong number, comes to find out one day when he came home late from "work" he gave a girl a ride home because she missed the last bus and she was 16 years old. when i asked him ok well why did you have to give her your number he said in case anything happened. I left it alone, he told her not to call or text him anymore. That stopped....everything been going good till one day i don't know why but i felt like something was wrong and something was going on. He was always on his phone, every were he went he had his phone. When i asked him about it he said he's just playing a game. So the other day i went thru his phone and there was a text from a female saying "hey, sorry i have bad reception im putting the girls to sleep i will call you tomorrow thank you for calling =)"his reply was "no problem, goodnight" the next day i went thru his phone again and the only message he deleted was the one between him and her.why?... The day that text was, he stood at work late, but he was on the phone with me most of the time so its kind of confusing what to think. he comes straight home from work, if he does go out its to the gym and on his days off hes home with me and the baby. so its hard to tell if he is or not cheating, or maybe hes thinking about it....i don't know. His actions are very questionable and its killing me. I don't want him to know i was going thru his phone because that'll only bring up an argument which i don't want. Am i paranoid or what?