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Published on November 20, 2013 by wendilyn72

I'm 41& white, my black boyfriend of a year+ is 27. We live together, have a good relationship full of laughs, love and daily sex BUT with all the tines we have had sex, he has never gone down on me. Do I just ask him to, is he not interested, what's the deal?

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Ya gots to ask! Or just move yourself on top of his face when you are down on him!

I like to find moments when we are doing other things to explore bedroom talk. Maybe you are cooking dinner together. Cooking and eating are both sensual. You might strike up the conversation as you ask him to stir the onions.

"Hey, I really want to tell you something and I'm super nervous to do it. I want to share with you something that I'd really like to explore with you in bed. I want you to understand that it's really hard for women to come out and ask for favors, much less a sexual favor. I want to know how you it feels to have you go down on me. The way you eat is super sexy and I just think it could be amazing!"

If his response is less than excited, I would share with him, "Well, I understand this has been a challenge for you in the past, and I want you to know that it hasn't been for me and it's something that I very much enjoy and would like for us to have in our relationship. Let me know if there's something I can do to make it more comfortable for you. I don't want this to become a problem in the bedroom for us. I want us to really love our time that we have in bed."

Best of luck - Margaret

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