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Now or Never?
I've been dating a guy long distance on and off for about two years. I fell for him early on and from my point of view have always wanted more from the relationship than he has. About a year ago I told him I wanted more from the relationship and wanted to see him more than we were at the time. He said he was happy with the way things were, so I bolted. After that, he made efforts to make up for things, but I was very skeptical and kept him at bay. I started seeing someone else locally, but he wouldn't let go and since he, long distance guy, is the one I truly wanted, I returned. We have been trying to rebuild our relationship. This past weekend I told him I want his heart and asked if I have it and he basically responded that I have at times, but not presently. Here's my question: Is this a now or never situation? If I don't have his heart right now, after two years, will I ever? If not, then I have to move on, although I really love him. On the other hand, if I understood correctly that I've had it before, am I in the process of getting back?