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Not been in love with the girlfriend.

Published on March 30, 2014 by natashamafra

My boyfriend told me that he is not in love with me, he doesn't feel butterflies in his stomach. He never felt that way with me. Actually, he still in love with another girl that he never dated. And recently he felt crush for another girl. To make it worst, we are already, from the 8 months that we are together, 4 of then in long distance relationship. What should I do? I love him a lot, and I don't want to leave him. He didn't cheat on me, but should I be with him? Could we really work out together?


Dear natashamafra,

It sounds like he's already made his feelings clear to you, yet you are looking for someone to tell you it's going to change. What he said is incredibly cruel, even if it's the truth.

If he doesn't love you and wants to be with someone else, why would you want to be with him? Do you doubt that you'll be able to find someone who will love you? Know your own value. Don't wait around for someone who has made it clear they aren't as into you as you are into them.

Sticking around hoping his feelings will change is only setting yourself up for false expectations and future heartbreak and deeper pain.

I know it's a tough pill to swallow but dump the loser and move on to someone who loves you in return!