Take time to focus on yourself and your children before jumping into anything. Finding yourself single after a marriage has gone wrong can be a very crushing experience, but like a lot of things, it does get better with time. Your world has been turned upside-down, and it needs to stop shaking before it can be flipped right-side-up again.
There are plenty of good women out there who are not at all opposed to a "blended family" situation. Given the high percentage of divorce these days, blended families are becoming more and more common. Just make sure you find a woman who loves you and your children for yourselves, and not just for the "stable job/good benefits/nice home" you have to offer. (It's insane how many superficial people there are out there!)
Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out well for you and your little ones.
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