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new guy may be involved with someone else

Published on May 29, 2012 by jmiss10

Hi im concerned that the guy ive been dating for the last two montgs may be hiding something from me. He never calls me unless we are meeting up. Mainly texting and he never answers his phone when i call. We only hang out on monday and tusday nights never on the weekends. And lately the texting has compltely stopped and he doesnt ask to hang out. Im lost and need advice on hiw to handle this situation because i really like him and this is hurtful. What should i do?


Take back your power and trust your instincts. Behaviors reveal quite a bit--it doesn't matter why he is doing it, but he is not demonstrating that he is into you and wanting to spend time with you. Men who are into you will want to see you more frequently than two nights a week, will gladly call and text you to set that up--so if you see behaviors that are decreasing his contact with you not increasing it, let it go and find someone who truly is into you and whose behaviors reflect that.

I think you should stop seeing this guy because if a guy really likes you he will go out of his way and be with you no matter what. Although you may like him, you have to let go and move on because he is not worth your time. When you put in more effort than he does, it is not an okay situation. Good luck!

These are warning signs that tell you to look a little more deeply. Try not to jump to conclusions, but don't ignore this change in behavior. There could be many reasons why he acts the way he does and is unavailable. Try to get more information if you can-- make sure it is reliable.

Ultimately, you get to decide what kind of relationship you want and you get to decide what you'll do to create that. If he's not a match for what you want, then it might be time to move on from the relationship.

Best Wishes, Susie and Otto Collins