Frankly, ask him for his input. My wife was from such an overprotected, enmeshed background that I have taught her about everything she knows about sex. I was overprotected myself, but unlike her I rebelled against it and thus learned much more than she knew on our wedding day.

As long as you use a lot of tongue and caress him all over you'll do fine. A good BJ is memorable, I see it as a way to show how you really care because any girl can do the missionary position. Not many give good hummers