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need to make a choice

Published on March 3, 2012 by cburkes

I have been dating a guy for a year now but we know each other for four years we started messing with each other while I had a bf and he was with his baby momma they have two kids together but he has another baby momma before this one with two other kids now that I'm not with my bf he wants me all to himself n but she still lives with his baby momma and now after a year of being with him and only him he wants us to have a child together I really like him and he claim he loves me and wants a future with me but I really don't know wat to do I know he is with her but he claims I'm the only one he is with plz help


So, he's paying child support for 4 children, how does he have money to live off of? Or is he a scumbag who doesn't pay child support, and everyone's on welfare? Yes, invest your life in someone who jumps from woman to woman and cheats on them if you want a life of misery. Past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior. He will live with you, knock you up, cheat on you, then tell another woman he wants to have a baby with her.

Get some ethics. Don't cheat. Karma will come back and bite you in the ass. Be smart. Choosing a lifetime partner is the most important decision you'll ever make. Choose a man who is financially stable, faithful, kind, loving, and without addictions. You can make your list longer and include more must haves and dealbreakers. Stick to the list. Don't settle. Being attracted to someone is never enough. Good luck.

It's up to you. You know his pattern. You will be no different. But you can decide to change and create a new life for yourself, far away from men who just use women. It's up to you. If you don't have the strength, pray for it. God cares.

Well, I think that you know the answer. He wants you two to have a child together when he has 4 with 2 different women. More importantly, he wants you two to have a child together and he has not even invested in the relationship. Do you want to be added to his list of "baby mommas"? It seems that he probably told the other two women the same thing and he is not with the first one and is cheating on the second one with you. Once he gets with you, he will probably cheat on you with his 4th baby momma. ALSO, if you would like to get married one day, you should probably wait until you are married to have kids. This guy definitely has a pattern of sweet talking women, getting them pregnant and moving on to the next.