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my partner worships the ground her ex walks on , is this a serious red flag.
we have been together for aprox 4 yrs but there is constant issued with her ex and they have a child together , she wont get a parrenting plan to secure her rights as a parent and the father isnt even on the birth certificate bet the child resides with father cause he is in a stable invironment. and there is constant questionable visits to see her child at the ex's , no phone call's to me and even the excuse that she fell asleep in her kids room , as now its the next day, to much to list ,but ive tried to talk to her about parenting plan , and i explain she just needs to have it in place so the father cant deney her visitation whenever he is upset , but still she does nothing and she knowingly and willfully puts me on the back burner whenever the two of them are on speaking terms but as far as i can see they get along great helping him do this or that and her and i have only had her son mabe half a dosen times over night or untill she cant handle her son not obeying what she says wich isnt very long usually 4 hours and she is done . PLEASE I LOVE THIS GIRL TO UN IMAGINABLE LEVELS , YEAH WE HAVE HAD OUR SHARE OF FIGHTS AND SO FORTH BUT THIS IS THE ISSUE THAT CAUSES EVERYTHING , IM SCARED IM GONNA HAVE TO WALK AWAY FROM MY BEST FRIEND, MY SOUL MATE,AND THE MOST COMFORTABLE PERSON TO BE AROUND,NEVER HAVE I FELT THE WAY SHE MAKES ME FEEL.WHAT DO I DO? HELP ,THANKS