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My partner has NO sex drive. What to do???
She went through early menopause and just stopped wanting to have sex. No kissing, no touching, much less genital sexual activity. We are a sexless couple. I have a very healthy sexual appetite. Recently, I was approached by an old boyfriend who was very assertive in wanting a 'relationship'='sex'.....and I was tempted! I don't want to cheat. I love my girlfriend. We have a GREAT life together. I want a sex life as well.
She has seen her gyno several times and he prescribes hormones she won't take/use. It makes me feel like she doesn't find me attractive anymore. Of course she would deny that. She is 51 and I am 47. I have considered breaking up over it, but I really do love her. I just feel like my sexual needs are not very important....actually ignored.