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My new GF is giving me mixed signals
I started dating this girl about a month ago and we've been seeing each other twice a week. She is a CPA who works a lot including Saturdays, and goes home late. The first three weeks we couldn't wait to see each other, and texted quite a bit. When we saw each other she was always affectionate and always told me how much she likes me.
I dropped by to see her middle of this week, and she complained about not being ready that day to see me, and that she feels gross because she didn't have time to shower and dress up. I told her that it didn't matter because she is naturally beautiful. Anyways, throughout the night she started telling me how dating is an adjustment for her and how it takes time before she is fully invested into a relationship. However she was still very affectionate with me. I later wrote her and apologized for pushing her, and told her that I would like to do things at her pace.
Since then she hasn't responded, and hasn't been texting very much. While she is usually very busy, it's not like her. My friends are saying that perhaps I'm being too romantic, and too pushy, but I felt like she reciprocated the first three weeks.
Now I don't know what to do. Am I pushing too much when i ask to see her twice a week, considering her busy schedule. I'm afraid to ask her to see me this weekend, and kinda waiting for her to initiate.
What are your thoughts ? What should I do next ? If she felt pushed, why was she very affectionate 10 minutes later?