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My fiancee always puts his sister before me
My fiancee who Ive been dating for about a year always puts his sister before me. She is 6 years younger than him. Everytime there is a family function he spends all his time catering to her. He opens her car door and leaves me standing. He puts his arm around her and rubs her neck, gets her food plate and even makes food for cookouts that I dont like, but she does. They always exchange stares and winks, which makes me uncomfortible. It seems like he goes out of his way for her when she is around. When it is just me and him he caters to me and constantly tells me how much he loves me and cant live without me.Ive told him in the past how his actions with his sister makes me feel. And its me cause I just dont understand their bond. I need suggestions on what to say to him. I dont want to hurt his feelings. And he said his ex wife also had an issue with him and his sister.